FRIENDSHIP

What comes into your mind when you hear the word friendship???? Syempre, all those great words like, companionship, belongingness, etc... If I ask you what would it take for a friendship to last????
Syempre, top most is being TRUE, honesty, loyalty, etc....

This Idea has gotten into my mind since a classmate of mine told me... just yesterday afternoon, during Filipino (we just had a play==EL FILI)... When suddenly "she"(my 'x' friend==>I know we're still friends but in a PLASTIC way) was reading their play.... friend#1 (one of my barkada) whispered "dili xa kabalo ug basa." OOOoopppzzZZZzz.... I know ur curious why we HATED (am I that harsh for using such a word??) her...... Awkiez... so para maka-relate kayo, I'll share the story....

Kasi naman, before, way back in 2nd yr, she was a transferee that time, she was fine, we got CLOSE because from the fact that we were classmates, we were also neigbors. Then it started 3rd yr, we are no longer classmates that time, syempre I'll hang out with my classmates more often but sabay pa rin kaming umuuwi. Then time comes that I had to hang with my classmates more often and didn't have time to hang on her because of projects and everything.... I thought she would understand.... but like... she was so obsessed, she even acts like she owns ME or something... she even acts more than my mom..... I mean, she always wants to know where are my errands. I can't go unless I asked permission on her, I need to set up time on my errands. Things that a mom does or things that an owner does. Even my mom doesn't do that to me. Then 4th yr comes.... Great!!!(in a bad way), we're classmates!!!! Then whenever I would hang out with my 3rd yr classmates she would get MAD, really really MAD.... What's with her???!!! I'm not her property!!!! Then we compromised about it, and things went well for some time.... Then another issue was up.... She begun to act like a SPOILED BRAT, everything she wants she really would like to get!!!! and then getting worse everyday... then she begun to act like me.... everything I have she would get... I got pissed!!!! Then she begun to compete on me.... I mean, am I a competition for you??? Why would you comete on me??? I mean you've got a nice house and everything, have BF (can't belive you've got one.. hahahaha), and brothers that cared for you... and I got none... so why would you compete on someone like me??? She always compare my grades..... ggggrrr..... Would a TRUE friend do that??? Syempre, due to her attitude WE don't like her.... We can't open it up to her because we know she would get it wrong.... She's always like that.... then it ended up on this, backbiting and everything.... Then this past few days she stopped going out with us.... She hangs with my other classmate.... remember the saying "BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER" hahaha.... But it's true.... They were totally alike.... attitudes and everything.... Whenever they are together there is only just one topic they always talk about and that is "BOYS".... hahahayyyzzZZzz.... from my point of view... they are really desperate!!!!

Then back to the scenario... When my friend#1 said that, awkiez.... lets name them.... friend#1 is D, and the other is G.... When D said "DILI sya kabalo ug basa", G caught us and asked if "nag-war napud mo???"... Then I told her everything.... Then she said, I was like a slave... She also said that I limit myself. Her point is that I'm like trapped in a cage that has an open door, I can be free if I want to... then this captured me: "ako bitaw, If I fon't like my friends I can HATE them and show them I hate them, even though I got no friends I can still continue my life." I mean, she has a point, but we are so much different. I can't live without friends... Life would be worthless without friends... Kayo??? If you were on the same situation as mine what would you do???

==>>> HahaiiizzzZZzz.... I missed those days.... Now, you really think that everything was over. I passed by you 3 times this week and you just ignore me. seems like I don't even exist.... oh well!!! It will be just weeks before I go.... I would go with nothing.....